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Are American girls nice?

Amsterdam, The...
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Are American girls nice?

Hi, my name is Guy, 19 y.o. and I'm from The Netherlands. When I wanna go to the United States on vacation, I even had it for a time that I wanna have a beautiful American girlfriend from 18-21 y.o. The question is: Are they nice? so yes, Where can I meet them or where do I have to go when I wanna do that? (Just like singles activities, meeting or events, I don't know...) Any tips or any idea? Please let me know.

Thank you.

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Brooklyn, New York
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1. Re: Are American girls nice?

In general, American women don’t want to be your girlfriend just because you want a beautiful American girlfriend. They want to be the girlfriend of someone who is interested in them as a person. I’d suggest practicing treating women as people at home before you come to America. And once you know how to treat women as people, maybe you’ll happen to meet a woman in America who interests you and who is interested in you, too.

Best of luck

Kent, Connecticut
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2. Re: Are American girls nice?

How are you defining "nice?" In general, American girls are not at all like European girls.

Dallas, Texas...
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3. Re: Are American girls nice?

Vacations are short. You don't have time to get an American Girlfriend. That type of instant, whirlwind romance might be common in the movies but it's very uncommon in real life, especially for under 21's (where you don't get to partake of the singles bar scene).

If you devote time and effort into thinking this will happen, you are setting yourself up for failure. Plan your trip knowing that you will primarily be on your own (or with your family). Enjoy that. Don't aspire for it to be anything else. You can plan some group walking tours to have some variety with the people you get to know but don't expect any of them to turn into friendships that last into other activities or to turn into romances.

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